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Parker is deeply committed to building a School where all members of our community feel valued, included, and respected. No matter their interests, Parker provides curriculum, clubs, and other resources that help every student find their place in the School.

Only once the child experiences a true sense of belonging can they reach their highest academic potential and achieve beyond expectation.Head of School, Kevin Yaley, Ph.D.

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Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB) at Parker

When we celebrate different identities, backgrounds, and experiences…
When we lean into difficult conversations with courage and respect…
And when we are one community composed of many families representing a broad range of viewpoints, cultures, and backgrounds…

We all learn from each other.

The Office of DEIB at Parker ensures that our programming, policies, and strategic goals promote a community that is global in perspective, diverse in composition, and reflective of our world.

Learn more about DEIB at parker 

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Clubs & Teams

We nurture and encourage each student’s interests, and student clubs and teams hold space for Parker students to strengthen their passions in a supportive and inclusive environment.

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Families At Parker

Parker is a community for your whole family. Here, families connect, build strong relationships, and get involved in the life of the School.


 

Community Stories

Parker Forward’s All-School Celebration

With the student body split across two campuses, it takes a truly special event like the Parker Forward All-School Celebration to bring all Lancers together. Last week, students in Junior Kindergarten through Grade 5 trekked over to the Linda Vista Campus to celebrate the grand opening of the updated Silberman Family Student Life Center, the Douglas Aquatic Center, Vassiliadis Commons, and the Vassiliadis Athletic Center alongside their Middle and Upper School peers.

The youngest Lancers waved tiny foam fingers in spirited celebration, and Middle and Upper School students donned their finest gold and brown spirit wear. Lance, the Mascot, threaded through the crowd, drumming up Lancer pride and pumping up the energy. The feeling of community was palpable. 

The celebratory event included a dedicated moment to pause and reflect on how grateful students, faculty, and staff alike are for these new on-campus spaces. The new buildings and updated spaces—also called the Parker Forward project—are an extension of Parker’s commitment to student health and wellness and will support several programs, including athletics, physical education, student wellbeing, and more. 

 

Parker Forward includes:

  • The Douglas Aquatic Center: Parker’s first on-site, multi-purpose 7,350 square-foot heated pool, which is securely nestled behind the Student Life Center and the Field House, and includes canyon views of Mission Valley.
  • The Updated Silberman Family Student Life Center: The 30,000-square-foot expansion includes a two-court gymnasium with 1,100 bleacher seats, Vassiliadis Commons, locker rooms, support spaces for aquatics, the Dr. Michelle Look Training Room, professional offices, and a multi-use classroom and meeting spaces. 
  • The Vassiliadis Athletic Center: This area of the Silberman Family Student Life Center includes the new gymnasium, which will elevate the game day experience, bolster our competitive advantage, and bring a new level of pride and purpose to all events. The gymnasium also includes the John Herman Court, named for one of Parker’s superstar coaches. 

To celebrate the completion of the Parker Forward project, students heard from the Head of School Kevin Yaley and the Associated Student Body President Amon Andrews, Class of 2025, along with a dedication of John Herman Court from Andrew ‘01 and Melissa Vassiliadis ‘04. And, as a fun surprise, division deans Heather Gray, Dan Lang, and Ben Temple made a splash in the new pool with an intertube race. Heather won the event—the Lower School students chanting her name so loudly it could be heard throughout campus. 

The Parker community is grateful for the new spaces and cannot wait to begin regular and expanded activities. As programming ramps up, we cannot wait to see how our students grow and learn with the support of the Parker Forward project. 
 

read about Parker Forward’s All-School Celebration
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Francis Parker School believes that supporting the whole child–mentally, physically, socially, and emotionally–is foundational to the pursuit of academic excellence. In support of this assertion, the School named Healthy Minds, Healthy Bodies as a pillar within the current Strategic Direction. Elevating this effort to a named initiative enabled the Parker administration to build a support system of mental health professionals and other academic and social support resources for our students. 

Led by Parker’s Head of Student Success and Wellness, Dr. Megan Storey Hallam, Parker’s student success and wellness department is charged with providing age-appropriate assistance and programming to all students. Since joining the School in 2022, Megan has worked with her team to improve the effectiveness and accessibility of the student success program by creating a culture of wellness at Parker that is grounded in collaboration with faculty and the community. 

Since our 2023 report on this program—published in the 2023 Parker Magazine—the team reviewed and refined the Social Emotional Learning (SEL) curriculum across the school. One major outcome of this process introduced the provision of entire grade-level live counselor-led lessons and a video series for the Lower School. Additionally, the group deepened their library of resources and training materials in service of providing tiered levels of support for both students and teachers, beginning with differentiated classroom instruction or social-emotional support. 

While assessing Parker’s SEL programming, the department determined a new process for requesting accommodations with the College Board. This workflow now aligns with industry best practices and ensures both clarity and equity for students requiring accommodations for standardized testing.

One intended outcome for changes implemented by Parker’s student success and wellness department was to deepen the program’s impact on the everyday classroom experience. With this in mind, the team built and presented a series of professional development sessions for faculty and advisors in Grades 6-12 to strengthen their skills in supporting students and understanding when to refer a student or family to other support professionals at Parker. Additionally, the team has provided grade-level information on SEL strengths and areas for growth, derived from assessments such as the Independent School Health Check survey and teacher evaluations of the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL) SEL standards for students in Grades PK-5. 

Parker’s student success and wellness department embraces partnership between the School and Parker Parents/Guardians as paramount to effectively supporting individual student wellness. To expand these relationships, the department presented at a Parent Association meeting this year with a session focused on how to distinguish between normal feelings of worry or sadness and those that may indicate anxiety or depression symptoms. As a takeaway treat, the team conducted activities during the session to help parents/guardians continue SEL work at home to build their child’s toolbox of coping skills for feelings of worry or sadness.

While the program has seen many beneficial changes in the last two years, ongoing initiatives center student and family connections through the lens of Character Education and SEL programming. Student Success and Wellness has also been training the Associated Student Body’s Wellness Committee to empower student leaders with knowledge about mental health and wellness so they may build stronger relationships with their peers. 

Francis Parker School looks forward to reporting back on this progress in the months and years ahead as the program grows in both scope and impact on the lives of students and the broader School community. 

 

read about Get to Know Student Success and Wellness Program
Parker’s Director of Dining Services Belinda Lopez Named CulinArt’s Manager of the Year

Congratulations to Belinda Lopez, Parker’s Director of Dining Services, for being named one of two Managers of the Year by CulinArt, the provider of meal services in our campus cafés. 

Belinda received her award during CulinArt parent company Compass Group’s annual Night of the Stars Celebration, which recognizes outstanding achievement by Compass teammates across the U.S. and Canada. Winners were honored at a two-day event in Orlando.

Belinda, a graduate of the Culinary Institute of America, has more than 20 years of experience in the food and beverage industry, having worked in restaurants and country clubs in California. She was nominated for the award for her achievements since becoming the Director of Dining Services at Francis Parker School in April 2021. 

Belinda’s hard work ensures that breakfast and lunchtime run smoothly for Parker students, faculty, and staff. We are so grateful for her dedication, and for all she does for our community. Thank you, Belinda, and congratulations on the great honor!

read about Parker’s Director of Dining Services Belinda Lopez Named CulinArt’s Manager of the Year

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